: Distractibility during conversations or intimate moments can be misinterpreted as a lack of love, even when the intention is quite the opposite.
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: When one partner manages all household logistics, it creates resentment for the "manager" and a sense of shame or infantilization for the ADHD partner. The Couple’s Guide to Thriving with ADHD
: Replace "Why did you forget?" with "What system can we use to make this easier to remember?". Divide chores based on strengths rather than 50/50 splits—if one partner is better at big-picture projects, let them own those while the other handles scheduling. The Couple’s Guide to Thriving with ADHD